Wednesday, February 23, 2011

QUALITATIVE DIGNITY


How do we define fame? Is that a matter related to quality or is that a form of  excellence or is it merely a caption associated with publicity.. Society is such that they got a wrong perception about fame. It is as simple that we read poems of Tagore and ONV and then go and read a column of Shobha De. You can easily make out the difference of class and there you  understand what defines quality in the longer period of time. Dignity is not calmness. .

We can not say that Sabrina Lal is not a dignified lady because she fought against a powerful system in open voice.In fact according to me the kind of determination she showed needs to be appreciated. People generally got a wrong notion that fame and publicity are same. Saina Nehwal and Sania Mirza became famous because they proved their merit in their respective sport fields. There are people like Neera Radia who also became famous because of their association with Elite Tycoons/Politicians and Industrialists.  That fame is merely a name and if any one claims Nira Radia is dignified because she did agency work for a wealthy industrialist to fix Ministers of this country through a Padmashree Awarded News Channel Reader it is their own choice..

In real terms diignified people are those who stay not calm when their integrity and existence is questioned and not the ones who stay calm as in one pretention to fool the world around or when they get a few hours of fame. Dignified people are the ones who stand against all odds even when the whole world turned against them and fight for a cause. Dignity is not pretence or an ounce glass of fame. I know you agree with me that Sabrina Lal was not soft spoken or calm when she fought against Manu Sharma. When you slice and smash others life  you can not not expect them to be polite and if they were rude to you think first that it was because of your own rudeness or arrogance they behaved in that manner. And when you understand that you will not form a measure scale to record all qualities of life in different wave length to suit your requirement. And in situations people turn rude and think at that time what you have contributed for their rude behavior. Dignity is such a refined quality and dignified are those ones who venture not in any circumstances to stamp other human beings misusing influence or power.

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